by zippetydude » Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:15 pm
Strange story Cynthia. Even before I saw Top Gun (many years ago) I knew that i should "never leave your wingman!" In the wilderness I don't understand how people leave friends (or children, as in the case on San G with the Boy Scout) behind to figure it out on their own. I met a future good friend for the first time on Skyline years ago when he had accidentally lost some of his water. He was lying on his back in the manzanita above Flat Rock, calmly and rationally dealing with dehydration in the best way possible. I gave him my water and, when he said he would be fine, I said that was great, and struck up a conversation with him. As we hiked together, he quickly put 2 and 2 together and, around Coffman's Crag, looked me in the eye and said, "You're not going to go on ahead without me, are you?" It was not a request, he was simply asking since he had encouraged me to feel free to do so. I just smiled and said, "Well, actually, no." He understood immediately and we became friends right then. You don't leave people at risk in the wilderness. Period. It wasn't anything poorly planned on his part, it wasn't anything great on my part. That's just how we do it in the wilderness. How is that a mystery to anyone? I've brought this up before...my first Skyline, I had trouble finding the way in the traverse, so I simply stopped. I was maybe a hundred vertical feet off the trail having followed one of the old false leads that went straight up, so I just stopped. I waited to see someone passing by who knew the route, and then I saw you on the trail. I asked you where it went, and you guided me back to the trail and a successful conclusion to my adventure. It's just what we do, right? The only mystery to me is how anyone does not understand this? Even if you're only at 2500' and your friend has water, you walk him back down. It's just how it's done. I hope I only hike with people who are committed to everyone else's success and safety. I hope I never deviate from that as my ultimate guideline as a fellow hiker. And I hope I am prepared well enough to never endanger a friend who hikes with me...whatever the danger might be.
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