by cynthia23 » Mon Oct 16, 2017 12:04 pm
It probably was not done with any malice or ill intent, though you're right, it probably made it even harder for the families. My theory for why the man was so sure he'd seen them: he was next door neighbor to an AirBnB at which Orbeso HAD stayed a few weeks previously, with his friend. It's likely that during that time, the neighbor saw Orbeso, although probably did not pay any conscious attention to it. Later, during the time period immediately before/after the disappearance, another couple were staying at this AirBnB, and I suspect they may have been Hispanic or Asian--not white, at any rate. The neighbor also saw this couple--again, without consciously attending to it. After the disappearance, Orbeso and Nguyen's photos were in the paper. The neighbor subliminally recognized the picture of Orbeso, and was troubled by it, but didn't consciously remember that it had actually been several weeks ago, since that fact didn't fit with the facts in the news story. Instead, his subconscious 'made up a story' in which he put Orbeso's face onto the male half of the AirBnB couple he'd most recently seen. ( I suspect they were non-white, because many studies have shown that our recall of faces is much poorer with people not of our own race, and the neighbor was a white man. He'd be more likely to mix up one non-white couple with another non-white couple) Basically, I think his subconscious made up a story that would make sense of the troubling yet seemingly out of place memory of Orbeso's face.
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