To put it simply: I love the outdoors and I love to travel. I have been organizing private group events since 2003 and I enjoy meeting new people and having the company on my personal trips. Has anyone ever traveled alone here? There are positives and negatives about traveling alone and I thought it would be cool to return to two countries that I have been to before and have some new friends along! I am active in several non-profit organizations and I know how to work for free and put in the extra effort that most would never consider doing for free. This is why it seems like such a crazy thing - because I'm not expecting anything out of it and that's just not how society is supposed to work, right? Here is a shocker:
I am planning on going back to NZ and Nepal regardless of who wants to join me and geez - if I had someone willing to take me by the hand and show me a country that I'd never been to before (on a shoestring budget) I'd probably really take their offer seriously! I think it gets back to seeing the best in your fellow man - perhaps that's not a natural human trait, but it can be learned with enough experience. Not all are honest or upright and the first inclination is to distrust... just like when you go buy a car and the salesman is pouring on the pressure! The natural inclination is to see the dishonest side of humanity and usually that is because people see opportunity for selfish gain (themselves). It's all just sad, but it's not always necessary to look down on others and to immediately assume the worst. I asked if some of you were interested in a trip to Nepal and I got a few responses that were... how often do invitations for outdoor trips happen here? How many of you have actually done a trip that requires airfare and months of planning? How many know that those type of trips can be expensive? I've been honest and have answered all accusations and attempted to clear the air.
Now - with my Nepal and NZ posts. As I said: I'm planning and hoping to go back. I have my NZ permanent residency visa and I think it would be great if I can do it again- and regarding Nepal: as I mentioned before, I have a trekking guide friend that invited me to go back and I thought it would be cool to ask around if someone was interested also. Now, the trip isn't free - just like driving down the street to buy a dozen eggs isn't free. This is life and if we want to have a good time, it costs money (big surprise). I'm not in the position to pay for twelve of you to join me at my cost (I wish I were) but I have to pay for my personal trips and everyone else would be expected to do the same. If any of you took the time to read the posts that I have here, you would realize that I have done my best to answer questions regarding Nepal and NZ and the costs involved in a 20-30 day expedition to Nepal are in fact based on a professional third party quote - not my own. Feel free to get your own quotes, do your own homework, organize your own trips and chase everyone off that isn't as complacent as you in the process! It would be nice if you had the guts to PM me instead of trying to shame me in front of everyone. I think it wouldn't come to much of a surprise as to who the cross-eyed cat is, who the Neanderthal is, and who the chem trail-Zorro is. Let's see you guys step up to the plate now and post your real picture, some real info about your careers, and divulge some nitty-gritty personal info... come on - do it.
-Matt
PS: Maybe I should keep my aspirations at a lower level around here to not intimidate anyone...
And to answer Kitty:
I am asking people if they are interested in a trip to Nepal; a not-for-profit trip to Nepal. To join me - on my personal trip and they are completely free to work out their own logistics, period. In fact - I prefer it that way so I don't have to baby sit anyone.
If someone asks me a question - I answer. Do yourself a favor and don't assume the worst - instead, focus on the positive... be an optimist!
"Opinions founded on prejudice are always sustained with the greatest of violence."
Francis Jeffrey (1773 - 1850)
